A lot of the men are their own worst enemy. Guys rant in their profiles. They have few good clear photos or they choose photos with other women in there and dont crop them out. Most guys put very little effort into their profiles and then they are shocked women aren't interested. A lot of men come across as bitter, self-absorbed, shallow, perverted, womanizer. They can be the nicest person but if they display any of those qualities they wont get the time of day.
You know why men on dating sites are like that. Because after weeks or months of sending deeply thought out, interesting messages to women with sex dating movies interests and trying to talk about those interests, only to get completely ignored or get a one line reply and then nothing, most of us realized there's just no point in wasting time.
In fact, I found this article by googling ""why do women never want to talk about common interests on dating sites"", trying to figure out why this is the case.
From all my experience it seems clear to me that all women want are cheap thrills from a hot ""bad guy"" - nice, interesting guys with common interests don't tickle their libido so we get ignored.
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